Wednesday, November 26, 2008

The busiest travel day of the year

And I am always one of the ones traveling, every year of the *ahem*twenty*ahem* since I graduated from high school. As a kid, I spent every single holiday at home, not just in my hometown but in our house. My mother was the designated hostess for every Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, birthday, Mother's Day, Father's Day, Fourth of July and regular old Sunday meal, and the guests were always my grandmother (who lived a few blocks away) and my aunt, uncle, and cousin (who lived around the corner). In the usual kid grass-is-always-greener way, I envied my friends who got to go somewhere and do something for holidays instead of staying home which is so boring.

Be careful what you wish for, as they say. Since I turned 18, I've never been in my own home for Thanksgiving. Not that I ever wanted to cook a turkey in my dorm room or my Manhattan studio apartment, but you see what I mean. It feels a bit Peter Pan-ish to always be the guest and never the host. Like I'm not a Real Mom (hi, Motrin!) until I've stuffed the turkey and mashed the potatoes my own self.

(The reality is that my husband cooks the turkeys around here anyway.)

Truthfully, I can deal with Thanksgiving travel, even when it's on a crazy day like today and even with two travel companions under 7 years old. They may be young, but they are experienced. Thanksgiving doesn't have quite the baggage Christmas does (in the form of gifts, for one, and more firmly entrenched traditions, for two) and I'm above all thankful that we have families who love us and with whom we will enjoy sharing a meal.

I'm thankful for all of you, too, and hope you have a wonderful day and weekend, wherever you spend it and whatever you eat.

10 comments:

Hip Mom's Guide said...

Happy Thanksgiving!

Kate said...

Awww, we're thankful for you, too Mayberry! Happy Thanksgiving and happy trails.

kirida said...

I'm really thankful for people like you. You are awesome.

I hope you have a very wonderful Thanksgiving.

Vodka Mom said...

Have a wonderful, wonderful holiday. BE SAFE!!

mothergoosemouse said...

I hope you all arrived safely! Happy Thanksgiving from ours to yours.

Lady M said...

Happy Thanksgiving and safe travels!

Heather said...

Hope your holiday is full of good food and good company.

the mama bird diaries said...

Have a wonderful thanksgiving!

Magpie said...

I hope you had a safe trip. Happy thanksgiving.

Patois said...

Loved your Motrin shout-out. Hope your holidays are lovely.